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Lines composed out of frustration and depression
The writer reflects on the loneliness of always being the organizer in social situations, feeling dejected when friends and family do not reciprocate. Despite the desire for connection and spontaneity, they experience frustration during canceled plans and a lack of invitations, which intensifies feelings of isolation and self-doubt.
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The ongoing fun and growth of experimenting
Transition is a marathon, not a sprint, and this means that we are almost always learning. It’s not all about introspection, and so much of this journey can be a lot of fun. Especially in the case of transwomen we often have a step learning curve understanding women’s fashion, adjusting to long hair, make-up, nails,…
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Pride matters! Perhaps now more than ever
It’s Pride month so I wanted to reflect a little on the importance of Pride as a protest of societal shame and discrimination. Highlighting how the current Increasing anti-LGBTQIA rhetoric underscores means it is as relevant as ever especially as a force to empower others.
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Venturing in the scary unknown: Deciding to enter the dating game
At 35, I found myself a bisexual trans woman looking for a new start after my marraige. Breaking free of my lonelyness and misery I decided to venture into the online dating game. Excerising plenty of caution and using a carefully crafted criteria and a a few awkward interactions, I found a supportive partner and…
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Pitfalls and tips for starting down the HRT journey
After a year and a half on HRT, I’m sharring some advice for newcomers, highlighting both expected and lesser-known effects of HRT. Key points include fatigue during initial hormone adjustments, challenges in weight management, stomach cramps, joint pain, and skin changes. It’s crucial to stay informed and share our expereince as the research just doesn’t…
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My Transition journey – The hardest year so far…
Reflection on another year of this journey after coming out as transgender, navigating the challenges of transitioning, co-parenting, and a broken marriage. Despite initial struggles and mental health lows, I have found hope and empowerment through self-exploration and positive relationships. The last year has been a challenge but it’s leading to something that feels positive.
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Getting Ink done: The first tattoo was a long time coming
After nearly 20 years of contemplation, I finally got my first tattoo, motivated by my journey of self-acceptance and embracing my interests. Especially, my love for Iron Maiden’s “The Trooper” and my Pride as a transwoman. Read more about my design and my experience.
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It takes time to adjust
Its been an interesting few months and I feel like I am constently adjusting to changes. Whether is is life as a single parent or my own personal identity growth. It means I am costently navigate new challenges all while processing feelings of loss for the family I had. Despite difficulties, I am embracing these…
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My mission for 2025: Start prioritising myself
After nearly three years of self-restraint, I’m really going to prioitise myself and stop making comprisies for other people. I am finally going to whole heartledly embrace all the aspects of my true identity, focusing on personal expression and interests. My Plans for 2025 include pursuing hobbies, self-discovery, and making personal decisions, marking a new…
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2024: A road through my own personal hell
The past year saw a promising start marked by personal achievements and the positive effects of HRT. However, underlying relationship issues led a very dark place, culminating in a mutual decision to separate. The subsequent months involved practical challenges and emotional struggles, but by year’s end, there is a renewed focus on the future.
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Getting over my own doubts and learning to feel valid
The journey of self-discovery can often lead to feelings of being stuck and questioning one’s identity. The author reflects on their growth over the past year, detailing how supportive environments, like T-Gen gym, have been crucial in overcoming internal resistance. With newfound confidence, they embrace their identity and prepare for the Trans Takeover 3.0.
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Time to start burying the past: Learning to let go and move on with my life.
The narrative explores the struggle of reconciling the past with present realities, addressing the challenge of letting go of idealized visions of family and self amid a relationship breakdown. The author grapples with personal blame, societal perceptions, and the desire to embrace a new identity while seeking healing and self-compassion.